
Have you ever wondered why things are the way they are? Or you’ve left a conversation more baffled than when you started? We’re here to sort through (or stir up) the confusing, the mysterious, the good, the bad, and the ugly. EPISODES AIR TWICE A MONTH ON SUNDAYS! ***Disclosure: This podcast may give you early onset confusion, weight gain, desire to spend more time with your kids, drink, listen to trap music, mop your walls, become a furry. We are solely responsible for the content of this show. We are not responsible for anything you do or don’t do.
Episodes

Tuesday Feb 06, 2024
39 - Self-Deprecation
Tuesday Feb 06, 2024
Tuesday Feb 06, 2024
Inspo Quote: Don’t wait for others to choose you, choose yourself today.
Comedians are famous for self-deprecating jokes. That’s why you need to make fun of yourself and be light-hearted! It’s ok to make fun of yourself, but don’t be self-deprecating because you want people to compliment you; that’s annoying.
Show references
Rick Diaz - self-deprecating stand-up on Kill Tony https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j6U0G9q2P70
Anjelah Johnson (aka Bon Qui Qui) - How to be a comedian and Eminem yourself https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SlnT1kCD4fo
Bon Qui Qui Homegirl Security - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VlKxbwul6uk
Sarah Millican - Seven signs of aging https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vcqNRoxTx9c
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Be a part of our show! Record an audio clip to thatswhyshow@gmail.com. We’ll give you our unfiltered, unprofessional, unqualified advice. Find us on Instagram and Facebook at ThatsWhyShow; please follow, subscribe, and write us a review!
Music used for Get Glowing Skincare: https://hypeddit.com/jak92/miamisunset
Outro song provided by our musically talented friend, Vincent Traylor! Check out Mazeric’s “Still Born” music video at: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wHmY6710Sv8

Monday Sep 11, 2023
38 - Motivation
Monday Sep 11, 2023
Monday Sep 11, 2023
Inspo Quote: Don’t try to be the “next.” Instead, try to be the other, the changer, the new.
Hey ya’ll, this episode was recorded on Feb. 9, 2023. Xuan has been horrible at uploading so if you want to blame someone, blame her!
Patricia’s homemade bread recipe:
3 cups flour
1.5 cups water
2 tsp. salt
2 tsp. yeast
Mix ingredients. No need to knead! Bake asap (or let rise for an hour). Bake at 450 degrees in a cast iron/dutch oven for 30 minutes with the lid on and 15 minutes with the lid off. Enjoy!
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Patricia references information from the “Huberman Lab” podcast; episode #39 on Sept. 27, 2021: “Controlling your Dopamine for Motivation, Focus and Satisfaction” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QmOF0crdyRU
Be a part of our show! Record an audio clip to thatswhyshow@gmail.com. We’ll give you our unfiltered, unprofessional, unqualified advice. Find us on Instagram and facebook at thatswhyshow, so please follow, subscribe, and write us a review!
Music used for Get Glowing Skincare: https://hypeddit.com/jak92/miamisunset
Patricia’s Dad’s Angel day is Feb. 9 and Kenny G was one of his favorite artists. We can’t afford to pay Kenny G for the outro song, so enjoy this cover by Audry Johnson from Indonesia: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_oofykh5B1k

Tuesday May 30, 2023
37 - Mental Fragilities
Tuesday May 30, 2023
Tuesday May 30, 2023
We explore different ways to handle people with mental fragilities and how to cope with your loved ones. Let's be honest, we are all mental!
Inspo quote:
Inspo quote: Someone being patient with you is one of the softest forms of love.
If you would like to be a part of our show, we would love to hear from you! Ask us questions and share your story. We’ll give you our unfiltered, unprofessional, unqualified advice. Record an audio clip and send it into thatswhyshow@gmail.com. Find us on Instagram and facebook at thatswhyshow. Our episodes are everywhere so please follow, subscribe, and write us a review!

Monday Feb 06, 2023
36 - Smells
Monday Feb 06, 2023
Monday Feb 06, 2023
We will make sense of scents for you!
How SCENTsitive is your sense of smell? (pun intended)
Inspo Quote: Guests (like fish) begin to smell after 3 days.
If you would like to be a part of our show, we would love to hear from you! Ask us questions and share your story. We’ll give you our unfiltered, unprofessional, unqualified advice. Record an audio clip and send it into thatswhyshow@gmail.com. Find us on Instagram and facebook at thatswhyshow. Our episodes are everywhere so please follow, subscribe, and write us a review!

Sunday Nov 13, 2022
35 - Get to Know Us Again Part 2
Sunday Nov 13, 2022
Sunday Nov 13, 2022
This is part 2 of the "Get to Know Us" episode! We asked each other questions from a game Esther Perel created called "Where Should We Begin?"
Inspo Quote: Support your friends like you support the celebrities that don't know you exist.
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Sunday Sep 18, 2022
34 - Get to Know Us Again Part 1
Sunday Sep 18, 2022
Sunday Sep 18, 2022
Esther Perel is one of our favorite psychotherapists! Her game, "Where Should We Begin?" is a spectacular way to open up questions and communication with anyone and everyone. Since we had feedback that our original "Get to Know Us" episode was too short, we decided to redo it and use her game to ask each other questions. We love you Dr. Perel!
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Sunday Jun 12, 2022
33 - Defiance
Sunday Jun 12, 2022
Sunday Jun 12, 2022
Defiance: Open resistance, bold disobedience. Could you be defiant without being an a**hole?
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Sunday May 08, 2022
32 - The Mind
Sunday May 08, 2022
Sunday May 08, 2022
Your strongest muscle (and your worst enemy) is your mind...train it well.
Please send us your ideas of topics for us to discuss. Send us an audio recording to thatswhyshow@gmail.com. We would love to hear from you!

Sunday Apr 03, 2022
31 - Respect
Sunday Apr 03, 2022
Sunday Apr 03, 2022
We share 7 tips on how to be respectful.
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Sunday Mar 20, 2022
30 - Is There Such a Thing as Dreaming Too Big?
Sunday Mar 20, 2022
Sunday Mar 20, 2022
Hey August Bridges! Thank you so much for sending in your audio clip. Your voice is like honey! Please share what your dreams are; we would love to hear about them!
If you guys would like to be a part of our show, we would love to hear from you! Please email us a topic suggestion/question at thatswhyshow@gmail.com, or better yet, send us an audio clip so we can feature you in our next episode.

Sunday Mar 06, 2022
29 - Phobias
Sunday Mar 06, 2022
Sunday Mar 06, 2022
What type of phobias do you have? Were there affective treatments that worked for you? How do you know if you have a phobia?
Send in your comments and questions to thatswhyshow@gmail.com. Be a part of our show because we'd love to hear from you!

Sunday Feb 20, 2022
28 - Black History Month
Sunday Feb 20, 2022
Sunday Feb 20, 2022
In this episode, we are discussing the topic of Black History Month. How do you celebrate, recognize, and acknowledge this wonderful month?
Email us your questions to thatswhyshow@gmail.com. Better yet, send us an audio clip of your question so we may add you into our episodes!

Wednesday Dec 29, 2021
27 - Fetishes
Wednesday Dec 29, 2021
Wednesday Dec 29, 2021
One in six people have a fetish. Are you one of them?
Email us questions or topics you'd like us to research at thatswhyshow@gmail.com.

Sunday Nov 28, 2021
26 - Gratitude
Sunday Nov 28, 2021
Sunday Nov 28, 2021
How do you show your appreciation? Are you a person that is GENUINELY grateful? In celebration of this Thanksgiving weekend, we want to share how we can all have a bit more gratitude.
Email us at thatswhyshow@gmail.com for comments and questions! Please follow, like, and subscribe!

Sunday Nov 14, 2021
25 - Insecurity
Sunday Nov 14, 2021
Sunday Nov 14, 2021
What are you insecure about? How do you overcome insecurity?
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Sunday Oct 31, 2021
24- Culture
Sunday Oct 31, 2021
Sunday Oct 31, 2021
How do you define culture? What cultures are you a part of? What's offensive in one culture, but acceptable in others?
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Email us at thatswhyshow@gmail.com for questions or comments.

Sunday Oct 17, 2021
23 - Death
Sunday Oct 17, 2021
Sunday Oct 17, 2021
Death is inevitable. How will you choose to cope with death? How would you like your body to be treated after death? We give you a few options of "greener" burials to lessen the impact on our environment and how you can open up about this topic.
Email us at thatswhyshow@gmail.com with questions and comments. Please rate, review, and subscribe!

Sunday Sep 26, 2021
22 - The Soul
Sunday Sep 26, 2021
Sunday Sep 26, 2021
Do you think we have souls? We know death is inevitable, but is death REALLY permanent if our soul continues to live on?
Email us at thatswhyshow@gmail.com with an audio clip of your questions or comments. We would love to hear from you and play your recordings on our episodes.

Wednesday Sep 15, 2021
21 - Funny News
Wednesday Sep 15, 2021
Wednesday Sep 15, 2021
On this episode, we give you funny news that happened around the world!
Please write a review and share with your friends!
Are you curious about anything and want us to do the research for you? Email us an audio clip to thatswhyshow@gmail.com.

Sunday Jul 25, 2021
20 - Therapy FBC with Lindsay
Sunday Jul 25, 2021
Sunday Jul 25, 2021
Today is a special 20th episode with our guest host, Lindsay! She created FBC (Fake Book Club) to connect people together within a safe, positive environment. Sometimes therapy isn't the answer, but a Fake Book Club always is!
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Email us at thatswhyshow@gmail.com for comments and questions.

Sunday Jul 18, 2021
19 - When Do You Know Who You Are
Sunday Jul 18, 2021
Sunday Jul 18, 2021
High school plastic surgery? Hormone therapy at 8-years-old? How do you know who you are?
Please give us a 5 star review on Apple and share our podcast with your friends!
Let us know what you'd like to hear or send a voice memo to thatswhyshow@gmail.com to be aired on our next episode.

Friday Jul 09, 2021
18 - Letting Go
Friday Jul 09, 2021
Friday Jul 09, 2021
Does sorry mean something to you? Does their apology redeem what they've done to you?
What do you do to apologize?
If you want to become full, let yourself be empty. If you want to be reborn, let yourself die. If you want to be given everything, give everything up.
Tell us your thoughts on how you let things go. We would love to hear from you! Email us at thatswhyshow@gmail.com
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Sunday Jun 06, 2021
17 - Get to Know Us
Sunday Jun 06, 2021
Sunday Jun 06, 2021
Hello folks! We did this "Get to Know Us" episode on a whim. It was our first time actually recording together in the same room (well, patio...since we were eating at Oh Mai Restaurant).
This audio recording is from our first YouTube upload, so if you want to watch us, please visit our YouTube channel at: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdPWditzr2ZNQprSXnzzQgg
We've had so much positive feedback about our show and we hope to answer more questions for you in the future!
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Friday May 28, 2021
16 - BONUS episode - We were guests on WBAI 99.5 Radio NYC
Friday May 28, 2021
Friday May 28, 2021
We had the wonderful experience as guests on NYC WBAI 99.5 with Johanna Fernandez and Ellis Maxwell.
Their show is called "A New Day" which airs Mon-Fri at 7AM EST with daily news coverage and reporting.
To listen to the full episode visit:
https://www.wbai.org/archive/program/episode/?id=23171
Johanna's Bio:
https://www.wbai.org/program.php?program=355
Please write us a review and send your comments and suggestions to thatswhyshow@gmail.com.

Sunday May 23, 2021
15 - Funny News
Sunday May 23, 2021
Sunday May 23, 2021
What do croissants, Italian food, Twinkies, appendages, and retirement have in common? Listen to find out!
We want to share what brings us joy. Sometimes we're bombarded with negative news, so we're here to give you something to laugh about!
Please write a review and tell your friends!
Email us your comments and questions to thatswhyshow@gmail.com.

Tuesday May 11, 2021

Sunday May 09, 2021
14 - Dreams
Sunday May 09, 2021
Sunday May 09, 2021
Have you had a flying dream before? What about a running away dream? Night terrors? What are the psychological components that affect us during sleep?
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Thanks!

Wednesday Apr 28, 2021
13 - BONUS episode - Hate in America
Wednesday Apr 28, 2021
Wednesday Apr 28, 2021
We were guests on The Time West Show with the topic of "Racism in America." Since we're a comedy podcast, we were pretty hesitant to upload this episode onto our channel because we love making you laugh and we love having fun. However, sometimes we need to put on our big girl pants and talk about serious matters that affect us all.
If you've come to start this episode to laugh, this is not the one...so skip it! We'll understand...or will we? *eye twitch*

Friday Apr 16, 2021
12 - Orgasms
Friday Apr 16, 2021
Friday Apr 16, 2021
This is an episode where we answer your questions about orgasms.
NOT organisms. NOT oregano. NOT origami. NOT organs. NOT O channel. NOT O rings. ORGASMS!
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Sunday Apr 04, 2021
11 - Anxiety
Sunday Apr 04, 2021
Sunday Apr 04, 2021
Anxiety is like diarrhea. It comes at inconvenient times, it's a pain in the ass, and it's absolutely shitty. How do you deal with anxiety?
Recommended websites:
https://www.peacefulrosecounseling.com/
Outro Music: Nevertel - Down https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=czeh6CeT5Dw

Sunday Mar 21, 2021
10 - The Girlfriend Experience
Sunday Mar 21, 2021
Sunday Mar 21, 2021
This is a bonus episode where we were invited to do a collaboration with Time West Podcast, with Al and Ragz. We talk about the girlfriend experience which some would consider it blurs the line of prostitution. There is a portion of this episode where we discuss Asian massage parlors so please be aware this episode may be a trigger for you. We want to express our sincere love and support to the families that lost their relatives in the Atlanta shooting. We respect all types of backgrounds and don’t discriminate people of their line of work. As you’ll notice, Patricia is not a part of the show on this episode because we recorded late at night and she needs her beauty rest for her 5am workouts.
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Friday Mar 19, 2021
9 - How Honest are you?
Friday Mar 19, 2021
Friday Mar 19, 2021
On a percentage scale, how honest are you? What circumstances would warrant lying? Would you tell management you clogged the toilet? Would you lie about going to the strip club? Do you tell someone their breath stinks?
BE HONEST and write us a review!
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Friday Mar 05, 2021
8 - Boners
Friday Mar 05, 2021
Friday Mar 05, 2021
Have you had a boner at an awkward time? Did you know there are different types of boners? How do you know when a boner is a problem?
That's Why you have to listen to find out!
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Friday Feb 26, 2021
7 - Gender Roles
Friday Feb 26, 2021
Friday Feb 26, 2021
This episode is a listener's question from Richard! Did you know buttons are on opposite sides for men's and women's clothing? Why is that? Does religion and culture affect your perception of gender roles?
Acceptance is key! Who cares who does the dishes right? As long as it it gets done!
Follow, subscribe, like, etc., etc., etc.
Outro Song: Liqwd - Glow

Friday Feb 19, 2021
6 - Misnomers
Friday Feb 19, 2021
Friday Feb 19, 2021
What do hungry eyes, bearded tits, driveways, parkways, and bucket lists have in common? That's Why you have to listen to find out!
Follow, subscribe, and check us out on Instagram ya'll!
Thank you Nevertel for letting us use your awesome music for the outro song!
Nevertel - Riddled Mind

Friday Feb 12, 2021
5 - BONUS Episode - Would You be Jealous?
Friday Feb 12, 2021
Friday Feb 12, 2021
This BONUS Minisode is a request from a listener that wants to know how to deal with her Ex-Bestie hanging out with her Ex-Boyfriend. How would you react if this happened to you? Share your thoughts with us on Instagram @thatswhyshow or on Facebook!
Please write us a review and email us your suggestions to thatswhyshow@gmail.com. We'd love you to be a part of our show!

Friday Feb 05, 2021
4 - Should an Engagement Ring Cost a 3 Months Salary?
Friday Feb 05, 2021
Friday Feb 05, 2021
Diamonds and Jewelry and Love, Oh My!
What is your definition of an engagement ring? Is it important to you? How did a 2-3 months salary become the standard for an engagement ring?
Please write a review, follow, and email us your suggestions to thatswhyshow@gmail.com

Sunday Jan 10, 2021
3 - Do You Swear?
Sunday Jan 10, 2021
Sunday Jan 10, 2021
Are swear words necessary? Listen to this episode to hear about the science behind swear words, how it impacts our communication, and why swear words are here to stay!
Please follow, listen, and write us a f***ing review! Thank you!

Friday Jan 01, 2021
2 - Are you an Adventurous Eater?
Friday Jan 01, 2021
Friday Jan 01, 2021
Feet, brain, and fruit that smells like sweaty gym socks.
Does that sound appetizing to you?
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Music by: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SFy39wtOUsk

Wednesday Dec 23, 2020
1 - Do you Pee in the Shower?
Wednesday Dec 23, 2020
Wednesday Dec 23, 2020
Do you Pee in the Shower? Golden Showers? Penis Fish? What?!?
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